"I AM" – The Anchor in Marriage and Family Storms 

In Exodus 3:14, God introduces Himself to Moses with the words, “I AM WHO I AM.” This profound statement reveals God’s eternal presence, unchanging nature, and complete authority over all creation. Jesus, echoing this divine identity, uses the phrase “I AM” multiple times, such as “I AM the bread of life” (John 6:35) and “I AM the good shepherd” (John 10:11), to declare His power and purpose.

In Matthew 14:22-33, Jesus commands His disciples to cross to the other side of the lake, fully aware of the storm they would face. If He had spoken directly to their fears, He might have asked, “Do you think I didn’t know about the storm? I AM the one who created the sea. No storm can arise without My knowledge. I AM in control.”

This truth applies powerfully to marriage and family life. In Matthew 19:6, Jesus reminds us, “What God has joined together, let no one separate.” Yet, storms in marriage—misunderstandings, long-term sickness, financial stress, or unmet expectations—can feel overwhelming. At times, you may wonder, “Why did I choose this person?” or “Did God really lead me to this marriage?”

The “I AM” who called the disciples to cross the lake and calmed the storm is the same God who oversees our relationships. He says, “I AM aware of the storms in your marriage and family. I AM still in control. If you trust Me, I AM able to walk with you through these challenges and guide you to restoration.”

Building Faith in the "I AM" During Storms:

1. Remember His Sovereignty: No challenge in your marriage is a surprise to God. He knew the storms you would face before you even made your vows. He sees every struggle and knows every fear.

2. Trust His Presence: Just as Jesus walked on water to meet the disciples in their storm, He is ready to meet you in your difficulties. He says, “Take courage! It is I. Don’t be afraid” (Matthew 14:27). Invite Him into your marriage through prayer and faith.

3. Strengthen Your Covenant: Reflect on the sacred promises you made to one another before God. Instead of asking, “What’s in it for me?” ask, “How can I serve my spouse during this trial?” Serving one another in humility builds a stronger bond and reflects God’s love.

Practical Steps for Couples Facing Challenges:

• Communicate Honestly: Share your fears and struggles with one another in a spirit of openness and understanding.

• Pray Together: Regular prayer invites God into your relationship and shifts your focus from the problem to His power.

• Seek Wisdom: Turn to Scripture for guidance and consider counseling if needed. Remember, seeking help is not a sign of failure but of commitment.

God designed marriage as a reflection of His love and faithfulness. Storms may come, but the “I AM” who created marriage is able to calm those storms and bring peace. When you place your trust in Him, your relationship can weather any trial.

Ask yourself: Am I trusting the “I AM” to guide and strengthen my marriage, or am I trying to navigate these storms on my own? The great “I AM” stands ready to help—will you let Him?